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October 30, 2004

My Personal Credo

LaLiberte

It has always amazed me that in this country of freedom to speak one’s mind the first casualty in times of crisis is dissent. Whether the impetus comes from the flag waving citizen who hopes to thus define patriotism or from self imposed quiescence under the call to unity, the opposition to official American policy is shunted.

When the bombs begin to fall on Red Cross food distribution facilities, or U.N. workers become collateral damage, a stirring begins and a voice or two questions if there might not be a better method of conflict resolution. As you should know, aerial bombing of cities first began during the Spanish Civil

War, 1938 or 1939, and was considered at the time to be the most barbaric action ever undertaken by “State” for the solution of political conflict. It seems rather routine nowadays, just another indication of how much like the enemy we really are. Violence begets violence, even when it doesn’t prove effective in solving the big problems we all face.

I consider dissent to be the highest responsibility of citizenship, much more important than mere voting, an opportunity to inform debate, clarify issues and proffer alternative solutions. It is not that dissent is consent denied to those that govern, it is quite the contrary the ordinary citizen’s primary avenue for engaging those that make policy, to reconnect with them and their ideas and ideals. Waving a flag may be the most visible way of saying yes to policy, burning it the most visible way of saying no. Neither of those actions goes very deeply into the gist of political issues and the degree of correctness of policy. Only words can do that, the tool that Horace Greeley considered a fundamental tool of citizenship. We can see from local events that one must summon courage to speak or write an opinion contrary to the majority opinion in a period of crisis. We can see the toll it takes on personal freedom, the cornerstone of American Democracy.

I feel that the conflict we are engaged in has spun wildly out of control. Carpet bombing is indiscriminate. Stop the carnage. Kill not in my name. Place me on the side of law, and justice delivered through Courts, with the accused confronted with evidence, a transparent process of hearing and review.

Take my name out of the column that says I approve of the current policy. Count my vote now, chad or no chad, as being fundamentally opposed to a violent response to this crisis.

The ideals that we consider so fundamental to America are not served by this policy. These actions are seen around the world as Imperial actions, as if The Empire is striking back. We cannot undo evil in this way. We must avoid stimulating additional acts of violence through our military reprisals for violent acts. We are not absolutely certain where the original acts originated, it is fairly obvious that the people of Afghanistan are not mailing us Anthrax.

The United Nations and the World Court are the two bodies that we would turn to if other nations were subjected to crimes such as the ones being committed here today. We have a special responsibility to strengthen those institutions now. That policy would not only serve us now, it would serve the world for the future.

This is not an ism. It is shoring up a World system for delivering Justice across borders. We are not living in the wild west. There is no sports metaphor for winning this one. This is about process, with rules, procedure, and obligation. These are the ideals we ascribe to in America. We must act out those ideals now and be a beacon in this our time of crisis.

In this way we can do the important work of making the World a better World.

Bob Rivard

Man River

My Father was Albert Joseph Rivard,

born 9/26/1905 Pawtucket Rhode Island

died 10/29/51 Lowell, Ma. He was a young

man and I was just a 7 year old. My

mother, Emelia Baron, born July 25, 1908

in Lowell, Massachusetts, was widowed

with five children. (Married 5/1/1937,

Lowell, Ma.)

The first, Monique (Rivard) Reed lives

in Lexington, Mass, born on November 7,

1938. Marie Agnes (Rivard) Baker, the

second, born January 31, 1940, changed

her name to Kathy and became a Mormon

(the black sheep obviously) lives in

Logan, Utah. The third, Emile Albert

Joseph Rivard, born August 3, 1941,

lives in Tacoma, Washington. The fourth,

Madeleine (Rivard) Franklin, born May 3,

1943, lives in Atlantic Highlands, New

Jersey. I’m the fifth, Robert Leon

Rivard, born 10/27/44, and I live in

Amherst, Massachusetts, but I’m moving

straight to hell as soon as I’m done

here.

My paternal grandfather was Damase

Joseph Hormisdas Rivard. Born in Natick,

Rhode Island, July 31,1874. He died on

Feb 19, 1945. He was married (1/7/1901)

to Marie Louise Milotte, who was born in

Fall River, Massachusetts on Sept 4,

1877 and died on Sept 27, 1955. (She had

a small mustache but I pretended not to

notice.) They lived in Pawtucket, Rhode

Island and had thirteen

children.(obviously Damase wasn’t put

off by the facial hair either)

Irene, Alfred, Joseph, Albert (my

dad),Elizabeth (Betty is the last

survivor), Romeo, Lea, Gertrude, Henri,

Cecile, Eugene, Bertha, Antoine(Pete).

They mostly stayed in Rhode Island

around Pawtucket and Warwick. I had

thirty three cousins, so many I

couldn’t keep track, my sisters could

tell me (you) their names and dates of

birth. They are mostly all still alive,

and spread all over the East Coast.

Marie Louise Milotte was the

daughter of Napoleon Milotte (an

undertaker) and Philomene Bachand.

My great grandfather was Isaac Rivard

(plasterer) born 1848, North Stukeley,

P.Q. Canada, died 12/11/1923

He married Odile Dubois Quentin on

5/23/1870 in St. Jean

Odile was born 1850 and died 2/6/1912.

Her parents were Damase Dubois and

Cezairie Chartier.

They moved to 49 Hedly Ave., Central

Falls, Rhode Island, and later to

Natick, R.I.

My great-great-grandfather was Leandre

Rivard dit Dufresne born 1802. He

married DesAnges Mont-Pas born 1802.

They were married 10/16/1827 in

Yamaska. Marie DesAnges Montpas was

daughter of Jean-Louis Maupas dit St. Hilaire, and his second wife Victoire Laliberte (Rose-Victoire Roireau dit Laliberte,from Montreal.

My great-great-great grandfather was

Joseph Rivard dit Dufresne born Aug 7,

1766 died Apr 14, 1826. He married

Euphrosine Heroux on 2/11/1793 at

Yamachiche. Euphrosine was daughter of

Joseph Heroux and Marie Josephte

Sylvestre

My great-great-great-great grandfather

was Augustin Amable Rivard born

3/11/1743 died 5/7/1798. He married two

women the first in 1765 named Francoise

Gautier the second on 6/30/1779 named

Genevieve Gregoire at Ste Anne

d’Yamachiche. He was 1st

Deputy of St. Maurice from 1792 to 1796

My

great-great-great-great-great-grandfather was another Joseph Rivard,

born 1704

died 1/25/1793. He married Marie Toutant

born 5/7/1702 died 10/28/1778.

They were married at Yamachiche on

11/10/1732

Marie Toutant was daughter of Nicholas

Toutant and Marie Anne Raoul from St.

Aubin, Tourouvre, France.

My great-great-great-great-great-great grandfather was Julien Rivard

de La Glanderie born Dec 9, 1657 died

Dec 10, 1708. He married Elizabeth

Thunay dit Dufresne (a fifteen year old)

born 1667

They were married 2/3/1682 at Batiscan

Julien’s father was Nicolas the

adventuresome Sieur de Lavigne, who

married an 18 year old widow, Catherine

Isabelle St Per, after her first husband was killed by the Iroquois.

He came from France, from Merchants, Church Builders and was Captain of the Guard.

The armorplate comes with the territory.